That is a really hard question, I don't think any of us ever really know exactly who we are in our lifetime. I'm afraid we spend way too much time trying to be who everyone else expects us to be, but anyway I will tell you some of the basic things about me, or at least who I think I am.lol If you've gotten this far in my page's then by now you probably know that I am Sandra Arnold, (Sandra is Greek for "Helper Of Mankind). My mother got that name out of a True Story magazine, people are always telling me those are bad books to read, but I didn't know they could put a curse on you before you were even born.lol I don't know how I made it through school because I do seem to be missing the word "no" from my vocabulary.lol Okay enough stalling and back to trying to tell you a little about me, well I'm a 41 year old mother, grandmother, and person (I added the last because somehow when you become the first you seem to lose the last, and so I'm just reminding myself).lol I love my computer now that I have upgraded it so much and I'm really getting into learning as much as I can about it, and I'm very proud to be totally self-taught. I guess it wasn't enough of a challenge by itself or I'm just plain nuts, because look at me I'm also now trying to conquer the internet. You will learn more about my children and grandchildren (New Pictures)on My Little Angel's, and My Bigger Angel's pages, so I will concentrate mostly on me on this page. I'm a very small woman about 5' 2" and 105 lbs., but like they say dynamite comes in small packages!lol I do accounting and any other kind of work that I can do with my computer, and that way I can get along well with my boss (me) most of the time, and I love the hours. I live in a very small town, I call it smalltown,usa. If you are wondering what all the dancing going on up above is about it's because that's my fantasy, to find my "Prince Charming" aka "Soul Mate" and dance happily through the rest of my life with him. I love just sitting and feeling and smelling the ocean breeze when the sun is coming up or going down, it is one of the most relaxing times of my life. I also relax a lot when I drive my Trans-Am real fast with the radio up real loud, hey I am a Gemini after all, so I'm supposed to be two people, right? I love traveling, dining out, camping, curling up with a good book, watching a good movie, listening to music, socializing so that I can laugh and make other people laugh, I love helping people but I'm a little bit selfish because I like to know they appreciate me, and of course I love computers. I already know from the chat rooms that the big question on the men's minds is "What do you look like?", so I will include a picture at the bottom of this profile, but I don't think it really should matter that much what you look like. Beauty on the outside doesn't necessarily mean beauty in the heart, and when you need help that's the beauty that counts. The picture is a couple years old (I hate taking pictures) and I'm smaller now because I had a pretty bad automobile accident right after it was taken, but hey recovery is a great way to lose weight.lol I will update it with a newer picture as soon as I can talk myself into it. Well enough about me for now if you would like to become friends or e-mail buddies just drop me a line I would love hearing from you! Take care of yourselves and each other, hope to hear from you all. If you haven't signed my guestbook yet please do before you leave.
Okay I did promise to put a new picture here as soon as I could so here it is! "My Niece Donna and Me on June 6, 1997 at her graduation."
Okay I guess I will add a newer pic! "Me holding my youngest granddaughter Destiny, on October 18, 1997"
Okay I'm gonna add a few new pictures the first was taken on April 28, 1998, the second on May 2, 1998, and the third on June 6, 1998.
The music you are listening to is "The Dance" by Garth Brooks and I have chosen this because I have had a really hard and painful life but even with knowing I wouldn't have felt the pain I still wouldn't have ever wanted to miss "The Dance"!
